tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post238504905612309760..comments2013-04-08T08:09:18.341-05:00Comments on Lace Your Days With Hope: Dream Daddies and NarcissistsMomisshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18310970481605202808noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post-46163029886388976042012-06-30T04:05:06.980-05:002012-06-30T04:05:06.980-05:00So much here. So good you are pouring it out on t...So much here. So good you are pouring it out on the page.shrink on the couchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13271891110211081990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post-67066196250588364412012-06-22T18:42:30.528-05:002012-06-22T18:42:30.528-05:00Welcome Cynthia! Divorce is always hard, even whe...Welcome Cynthia! Divorce is always hard, even when it's for the best. The trick is for the parents to continue to be parents. Parents are just people, after all. This is an issue that I allowed to color a very large part of my life. Eventually I think we all get to an age where we "separate the wheat from the chaff", so to speak. I don't think there is any certain age when it happens, but we know when we get there.Momisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18310970481605202808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post-36950149997719958732012-06-21T13:58:20.201-05:002012-06-21T13:58:20.201-05:00Wow... Just wow. I have so many things to say... I...Wow... Just wow. I have so many things to say... I feel like God led me here. I was reading some of the comments on Becoming Sarah's latest post, and I just decided to see who else of the commenters had a blog. I clicked on every name that had a blog link and that's how I got here. I've never done that before, let alone have I ever thought of it before.<br /><br />I have been married for 6 wonderful years and we have 2 children ages 3 and 1. My husband and I are incredibly and happily married, but our best friend is going through a nasty separation. It's probably not even that nasty, but because it's affecting us and it's the only marriage we've ever seen fall apart, it just seems like the most horrible thing that could ever happen. I think it's incredibly important what you said for the heartbroken children, that's exactly what they are... Heartbroken. Our best friend has a son and he just weeps, for no reason he knows. He just gets sad and cries by himself. How awful? Watching them go from (what we thought) SUPER COUPLE to falling apart at the seams has been a huge emotional struggle in my marriage. We so badly do not want to become them that it's pushed us together and forced things that we may not have thought about out into the open. It's truly made us stronger, so I'm happy to say that their separation/divorce really hasn't been contagious for us. I just wanted to share this because maybe something good came out of your father not being there.<br /><br />"I felt like it was out of my hands, but it had never been in my hands in the first place." SO TRUE! I'm just learning this, that I have control over nothing but my own actions and sin. <br /><br />Your post has truly blessed my day. I am a dedicated reader from now on!Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03533209912020709308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post-1071860260551601082012-06-18T19:17:42.230-05:002012-06-18T19:17:42.230-05:00Me too.
Don't let it hurt your heart. It do...Me too. <br />Don't let it hurt your heart. It doesn't hurt mine anymore. But if you see a child in that position, be their friend. You can make a world of difference for them. You will start seeing them soon, no doubt, once your little one gets here. I am excited for you to have that baby!!Momisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18310970481605202808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7242561807476129486.post-31782822926105706052012-06-18T06:01:32.665-05:002012-06-18T06:01:32.665-05:00It's a beautiful post that makes my heart hurt...It's a beautiful post that makes my heart hurt. I'm so glad you kept a wonderful grandmother for your children.Lissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17970856329586708087noreply@blogger.com